Being assertive is not easy thing, because it is an ability that makes you unique from others. Other people are not confident so we have to maintain this ability for becoming strong. There are many things such as expressing your thoughts, feelings, and emotions in front of people. But we have to make us a different personality such as expressive, avoid conflicts, and also direct speaker. First one is to set clear boundaries, increases own self-esteem, and make an opportunity to open door for your life. Because we are responsible to make our life better. According to my experience, assertive people are not eager to lead but they have a quality to stand-up their partners and colleagues. And they have an ability to earn other people’s respect and they earn respect in return which makes them proud and confident. So build the ability of an assertive. At last, assertive people doesn’t take any stress and anxiety, while they use their weaknesses as their strength. They are mentally strong and they know how to use their frustrations in other works. They knows how to overcome the proportion of anxiety and fear turned into physical power by gym workouts and self-improvement.
