Self-control and self-respect both are significant for becoming successful and fulfil the objectives. So never let down your self-respect. Self-control comes from self-respect so always carry an ability of self-control in your life. Successful people always have these two habits they are never in time-wasting activities. Self-control comes from the disciplinary activities. According to my experience, I do many activities for maintaining my consistency such as yoga, workouts, running, and book-reading which diverts me from time-wastage and it stay away me from distractions. Nowadays, people are thinking that self-respect is just like an egoistic things which is not a kind of high-thinking and maturity level. Discipline and self-respect are comes from experience if a person manages these things they can become a successful person in their life. If you want to become a successful person you have to manage these two activities. They are good for your life as well as career also. So all the best wishes for you. At last I will only say that your self-respect matter and nothing.